Balanced Career Woman

Being a successful super woman undergoing a dual role as a career woman and always focus on the family is not easy. Moreover, for women in big cities like Jakarta, which the extraordinary traffic, other than the time required to share smart, super women are also obliged to continue to hone their skills so as not to miss. How to do tricks?

1. Determine what is important
Those who successfully make the balance are the ones who can make a priority so that the time and effort was spent in vain. Technological advances have made the work and personal life together, because that act selectively and do a time audit.

"Successful people can make a good schedule and remove unnecessary activities," said Henry Cloud, author of The One-Life Solution: Reclaim Your Personal Life While Achieving Greater Professional Success. In addition to the daily schedule at the office, also noted the daily schedule and all the little household affairs, so you can monitor, manage, and control what is done.

2. Couple that supports
Talk to your husband so that he gave his full support, as well as a place to share, a supportive husband is a husband who will share operational duties in the household. Carole-Lynn Glass, the mother of two children, one of whom suffered from cerebral palsy, was able to pursue his profession as a manager at the consulting firm. His success is supported by husbands who actively assist and flexible time from his office.

3. Affirmed the role of mother
According to Diane Halpern, professor of psychology and former chair of the American Psychological Association, there are still many women who think a good mother who had time 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, for the baby. And you need not quantity time together, but the quality. Make a definition of the ideal mother and execute that role wholeheartedly.

4. Create realistic expectations
In order to successfully perform a dual role, create realistic expectations in the office. They realized, in addition to a career, no housework, kids, and husband who need special attention. Therefore, make realistic career goals so that you do not run out of energy. Keep in mind, the higher the stress level of a job, the higher the stress level at home mom.

5. Create constraints
It is not easy to switch roles in a single day, from career woman by day into a housewife after work. One way is to focus on one thing only. For example when in the office do not even think of home affairs. When you arise in the child's sense of missed, call home to hear his voice and make sure your baby's fine. Similarly, if you have returned to the house, the biological role as mothers as well as possible.